ski bum

I was first on skis over 30 years ago. I’ve always loved the sport. It’s my father’s sport, and he shared it with his kids. We all took to it, but for me, as the oldest child, it was the most incredible way for me to connect with a man that I’ve always found it very difficult to connect with. My parents divorced when I was very young, and my father moved back to NY and started a new family, and so we didn’t see each other much. As a divorced kid, as I got older, I didn’t want to leave Chicago and my friends to go to NY and live in his home with his other wife and his other kid, for any amount of time. So the weeklong ski trips to Vail became our time.

There was a period of time in there, though, that I started to hate skiing. My father and I have this unspoken competition thing going on, and so it just stopped being fun. We’d be skiing, I’d be enjoying the scenery, the smell of the fresh mountain air and just thinking to myself “life doesn’t get much better than this…” and all the while, he’d be bringing up the rear yelling “float like a butterfly, sting like a bee!” You see how that could get old?

But I’ve always harbored a not-so-secret fantasy of being a ski town local. And now? I am. I love it when dreams come true. I’m thrilled for my girls to grow up on skis with the yummy red cheeks that everyone up here has. But I’m especially grateful that I found a man who has the same desire to build and grow a family in a place like this. As we are sitting here in our new home, surrounded by a never ending mess of cartons begging to be unpacked, I keep having to pinch myself to make sure I’m not going to wake up. Life just can’t get much better than this…

I promise… pictures to come.

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8 Comments on “ski bum”

  1. Madison said:

    p.s. the adorable shearling boots are originally from beannewyork.com, even though I spotted them at Posh Cravings

    Enjoy the snow and skiing…I’m so envious, but happy for you!

    Also, you’ve inspired me to blog….I will let you know when I am officially online :idea:

  2. Madison said:

    Congratulations on being “home” in such a lovely place!

    I was cruising my favorites and thought you might enjoy this link for Pea and Coco:
    http://www.poshcravings.com/photos/skiing_red_ribbon_picks/picture393.aspx
    These colorful shearling booties come in baby, toddler, and grown up sizes!

  3. Milena said:

    I loved the part about the yummy cheeks. I want to see them too! On another note, it’s so wonderful to read about how you and your husband share a common vision of how and where to raise your children. it’s rare to find such accord and even more to be able to realize this joint dream. Can I say how happy I am for you and your family? Because I am. Keep on enjoying and thank you for letting me participate vicariously on the adventure through your blog. I too want to photographs at your earliest possible convenience. I wish I could help you unpack. I’m good at that.

  4. Molly said:

    I’m happy for you. We live in a little Montana mountain town and love it here. I’m glad you found your special place!

  5. Everyday Yogini said:

    Melissa, reading this just gave me GOOSEBUMPS!!! I am so thrilled for you! Have I said that yet?? I can’t wait to see pictures and hear more about you living your dream!!

  6. Tam said:

    What a thrill and new adventure. My hubby introduced me to skiing and I fell in love. I am an East Coast Girl but I believe the best snow can be found in Colorado, Wyoming and Utah. My 5 year old already said he is going to grow up find a nice girl and live in Colorado! He too has the ski gene.
    Can’t wait to see you new view.

  7. Leanne said:

    Wow. I know what you mean….again. This recent “dream come true” move we made also includes a 10 minute drive to the slopes. Just last week I was alone on a lift and I actually cried because I was so happy to be there. I haven’t skiied for about 15 years, but apparently I haven’t lost my love of it. Made me feel like a kid again!
    You will LOVE it too!!!

  8. Robyn said:

    I didn’t get bit by the ski bug until I was in law school. I did it to keep my then-boyfriend, now Hubby, company. I am NOT athletic and didn’t think I’d like it. I LOVE IT. Even aside from the skiing, I love the quiet and serenity at the top of the mountain, the blaze of the fire in the ski lodge, I even love my ski jacket (now about 6 years old and I’m not giving it up until I have to). You are so lucky to have that as a part of your life now, not just a weekend here and there to plan and wait for.

    Pea and Coco will make the sweetest little ski bunnies!

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